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Tractor Girl 1980
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Help Need Urgently

Post by Tractor Girl 1980 » Thu Feb 26, 2004 4:57 pm



How can you tell someone your not interested in them but in a nice way?

Any suggestion would be helpful, he is driving me mad.


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Re: Help Need Urgently

Post by diedelia » Thu Feb 26, 2004 4:58 pm

Tractor Girl 1980 wrote:

How can you tell someone your not interested in them but in a nice way?

Any suggestion would be helpful, he is driving me mad.

Your not ready for a relationship?

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Post by Tractor Girl 1980 » Thu Feb 26, 2004 5:06 pm



No recently finished a 4 year relationship, not really looking for another one just yet.

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Post by DeIpswich » Thu Feb 26, 2004 5:09 pm

say u wanna be single at the moment for a while. say ur not reay for anotha comitment, because you have just ended a 4 yr relationship. and if they look really pissed off when u say this- say u wanna stay friends, but who knows wot the future holds

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Post by bluegirl87 » Thu Feb 26, 2004 5:15 pm

this may sound corny but just tell the truth if nothing else you should have their respect for not lying

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Post by JonnoTown » Thu Feb 26, 2004 6:42 pm

Tell them your gay.

lol

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Post by Missblue » Thu Feb 26, 2004 6:44 pm

JonnoTown wrote:Tell them your gay.

lol
Then he'll be onto her even more!!! LOL! :lol:

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Post by Susie » Thu Feb 26, 2004 6:45 pm

JonnoTown wrote:Tell them your gay.

lol

:lol: :lol: :lol:

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Post by diedelia » Thu Feb 26, 2004 6:46 pm

Tractor Girl 1980 wrote:

No recently finished a 4 year relationship, not really looking for another one just yet.
sorry i meant, say "you're need ready for a relationaship yet" I didnt meant to put ? at the end

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Post by Paul B » Thu Feb 26, 2004 7:06 pm

LOL Jonno!! :lol: :lol:

Tractor Girl 1980, its a tough one. I think you have got to be firm with them and try and drum the message into him. If he won't listen, then I don't know really, other than he is someone who won't respect your decision.

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Post by Dazza » Thu Feb 26, 2004 7:10 pm

Tractor Girl 1980 wrote:How can you tell someone your not interested in them but in a nice way?

Any suggestion would be helpful, he is driving me mad.

Well do nothing, if they ask you "out" say no.... Simple as that.

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Post by wicked blue » Thu Feb 26, 2004 7:11 pm

easy......just tell him you're in love with super Alun, like me :wink: :wink: :shock:

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Post by toby » Thu Feb 26, 2004 7:53 pm

Tell him that you really want to get married as quickly as possible because you feel that you're ready to have children...

then watch as he sprints off into the distance!

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Post by 1978greats » Thu Feb 26, 2004 8:12 pm

JonnoTown wrote:Tell them your gay.

lol
This one's been tried and tested (didn't really work though, did it J?)
But as its already been stated only works when blokes say it!

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Post by Riviera » Thu Feb 26, 2004 8:15 pm

tell him ud love a relationship but not until uve had the results back from the clinic :lol:

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Post by diedelia » Thu Feb 26, 2004 8:19 pm

Am i the only matture one with a sensible answer :roll:

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Post by DeIpswich » Thu Feb 26, 2004 8:22 pm

diedelia wrote:Am i the only matture one with a sensible answer :roll:
I think my reply was sensible- its also been tried and tested- and works

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Post by Riviera » Thu Feb 26, 2004 8:24 pm

personally i think mine was a sensible answer as well LOL

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Post by diedelia » Thu Feb 26, 2004 8:25 pm

DeIpswich wrote:
diedelia wrote:Am i the only matture one with a sensible answer :roll:
I think my reply was sensible- its also been tried and tested- and works
Yer its so awkward if they ask u out and then when you say no to there face and they start saying why whats wrong with me? thats awkward man i had that done to my sataurday i didnt know what the hell to say to her, so i came up with "do you have to keep asking me these weird and awkward questions?"

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Post by wicked blue » Thu Feb 26, 2004 8:26 pm

and so was mine, cos its prefectly true :wink: Ello riv, how are you today?

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Post by Riviera » Thu Feb 26, 2004 8:27 pm

fine wick, u ok? how was work last night lol

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Post by wicked blue » Thu Feb 26, 2004 8:30 pm

so so i guess :( work was busy, and i was cold all night, thought id pop on here for awhile, but still got packing to do, off to london tomorrow, so wont be on here for while........will you miss me? :wink:

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Post by Tractor Girl 1980 » Fri Feb 27, 2004 10:12 am



I would just like to say thanks for anyone's advice, I will be seeing him on Saturday at my mates party, will see what happens then.

Watch this space.

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